You see it on TV and in the movies, girl loves boy or boy loves girl but they love someone else. One way or another, they end up living happily ever after by the end of the show. Can this fairy tale happen in real life? It is achievable to heal your broken heart and coerce someone into falling in love with you?
Below are 3 tips on how to facilitate that exceptional someone to fall in love with you:
1. Common Interests – When mutual interests are shared, people are frequently attracted to one another. Try to get to know them and find out their interests; are any of them yours too? Maybe you share the love of hiking or reading the same type of books, whatever it is you can build on that interest. If they find out that you lied about an interest, you could be breaking their trust and putting the relationship at risk from progressing any further. What's more, you shouldn't have transform “who” you are for someone you love as you never need to be someone you aren’t.
2. Qualities – When looking for a partner, people often look for individuals who have qualities they love or respect. For instance, a man who is a non-smoker, over the age of 35 and has a great sense of humor, is all my friend will date. Do you have qualities that the person you love, are attracted to? When you investigate prior relationships, are there any like qualities shared between ex-partners? Do you have any of the qualities that they had? You have to be careful here and don't try to be just like their past partners, after all there is a reason they broke up. That little something they were attracted to could be as simple as having the door being held open for them, holding their hand or made them feel special in some way.
3. Be a good friend – Having a friendship first I believe is a good foundation for a good relationship. As your friendship matures you will become a crucial part of their life despite the fact that it could take a long time to get the person you love. Do not put your life on hold however if they require you, be there for them, and be a good listener. Continue living is what you must do and as such you should try dating other people. You will only look pathetic if you look like you are just there for them at every whim. It may make them look differently at you, they may even find you more attractive and it may sound weird but to date other people while you wait for them show them that you have a life.
By the person you love not loving you back, it’s difficult and heartbreaking. However that is not the way it has to be. You could have a fairy tale ending just like on TV or in the movies, but if these 3 tips don't work, that person may not be the one for you and you will have to know when to move on and try to heal your broken heart.
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